How do you stop erotic hypnosis? I saw that on a summary of discussions on a forum and did a double take? Why would anyone want to “stop” erotic hypnosis? Apart from a tease and denial session, where a trigger word STOPs the arousal in its tracks – but even then, the start of the arousal and the interruption of the arousal are as erotic as erotic hypnosis gets.
I once tried to tell this story a year or two ago. But the subject in the story got so paranoid and afraid that I was going to identify him, almost threatening suicide, that I backed off. It was silly. I’ve never done anything to him, or any other, to jeopardise their identity. But I thought it a shame I never told the story because it holds a valid lesson about hypnosis and expectations – not to mention accusations. And why a discussion on how to stop erotic hypnosis could be up for discussion in the first place.
This discussion I chanced across on the Informed Consent web site rekindled my desire to tell this story. A man had “accidentally” stumbled upon an erotic hypnosis site. He then proceeded to “accidentally” listen to a sample recording on it. Then he developed a headache. But he sensed the head-ache was no accident. He was worried it was as a result of the hypnosis he had listened to, so he turned to fellow forum members for advice on what to do next. In my opinion, what to do, if anything.
So, back to my story, and after I hypnotized this guy, with a very intense feminization session, he left. He left to go back to a life where he is the alpha male, heterosexual, and the provider in his home – a provider who wears jeans has his sleeves rolls up, and can knock you out with one punch if you so much as look at him wrong. None of that pantie wearing stuff that he had given in to during his session with me.
But over the next few days, he began to phone. He wanted assurances that he was out of hypnosis. Could he still be in a trance, he asked? He said he felt “off”, lethargic. This was worrying to both of us as his job involved him climbing ladders.
I had never, and have never since, had this before. And there was nothing about his session, even though it had gone on over three or four hours, to explain why he’d be feeling this way.
The hypnosis had been for feminisation. But the symptons he was reporting weren’t mincing steps and lisping talk, nor a desire to wear silk panties to work. Just fatigue that he couldn’t shake off. Which was why he wondered if he were still under hypnosis. (We are talking a good three to four days after the actual hypnosis session). He sounded unconvinced as he ended the call. But he lives miles away and there wasn’t much more I could do apart from re-assure him.
The phone calls got more desparate over the next day or so. He was so alarmed, that he was thinking of visiting a proper “clinical hypnotherapist” so they could “fix him”.
I reminded him that I am a clinical hypnotherapist. I just choose to specialise in erotic hypnosis. I didn’t mind him going to see a “kosher” hypnotherapist. But I advised him that the prejudice nd ignorance towards erotic hypnosis and recreational hypnosis displayed by my professional hypnotherapist colleagues is so rife, that if there was nothing wrong with him when he walked in, he’d be convinced that exposure to my hypnosis had subjected him to the worst possible malaise. In short, they would add to his panic. But the choice was his, if it would make him feel better.
Then I heard nothing for about a week. I wondered if he had gone to see another therapist. A part of him pitied him, if he had.
Then I got another call from him. He was apologising profusely. After he’d last been in ouch with me, that week he’d been feeling down, he’d since come to realise that what he had was a virus. A good old fashioned cold, flu, virus thingy. Hence he’d been feeling out of sorts.
I was relieved he’d received some closure on the matter. And I found it hilarious that he was so afraid of hypnotic mischief that he’d missed the obvious signs of a cold.
Having said that, there are a couple of hypnodommes with a reputation for planting a trigger in their subject’s mind that invoke a really bad head-ache if they listen to a competitor’s work. Talk about anti-competitive. This is allegedly common in some freebie recordings. I only know of this because I’ve read the complaints from men who were affected by this, especially if they hadn’t been aware such a trigger had been planted in the first place. I blame the free lunch mentality.
A common practice amongst the subjects that have seen it all and heard it all and know what is possible through hypnosis, is to do a “cold listen”, wide awake, to make sure there are no suggestions they wouldn’t want to fall for. You may think this is easy to do, but if you’ve got a hypnotist urging you to close your eyes and sleep, you’d need a double expresso to keep those eyes open … and even then you may find yourself in a waking trance. A waking trance is twice as lethal as you don’t see it coming.
I recently listened to a hypnosex recording, fully awake. I didn’t want to be hypnotized. I wanted to see how he had approached it, and what suggestions in particular he’d focused on, out of the many out there. I remember thinking it was a bit new-agey and completely unlike how I’d approach it. I switched it off and thought no more of it.
Then I realised that sex was suddenly a whole lot more fun. I put my new enthusiasm down to sex improving with age. I was feeling quite pleased with this by-product of growing old. Then I wanted to play a CD, hit the eject button in the CD player, saw the hypnosex recording and heard a whole bag of pennies dropping.
I’m glad it had been a recording to improve one’s sex life, and not something else! But imagine, if my subconscious mind accepted suggestions I didn’t even know I was accepting, while I was wide awake, or thought I was wide awake, can you imagine how much stronger the effect of hypnosis is when you submit, and sleep?
But back to when the effects of trying on a bit of hypnosis on for size may not produce the desired effect, for any one concerned, here are links to a couple of safety recordings.
Of the first, Nikki Fatale of Hypnofantasy has this to say:
For those who may be interested here is a session that will allow you to dismiss triggers and suggestions that may be undesirable to you. http://www.box.net/shared/h4xcp1o844
The second is a Lady Julia, who, like Nikki, has a good, safe reputation as an erotic hypnotist.
http://www.ladyjulia.net/safetynet.html
Cleopatra, Queen of Erotic Hypnosis in London, UK
Cleopatra is a female hypnotist specialising in Erotic Hypnosis, Mind Control, and Brain Washing in London, UK where she offers live, in person sessions of real, one to one hypnosis, a unique experience for those that wish to experience complete loss of control.
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