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This was originally posted by Lady Anna, a dominatrix based in the Yorkshire area of England, with a penchant for medical fetishes.  As I read it, I recognised all the types that a professional mistress or dominatrix encounters, many of whom I have either banned their email addresses or blocked their phone numbers.  Basically, these guys feel their manhood threatened and react in a way that should earn them a place on therapist’s couch.  It’s not that they have a problem with the payment (tribute) requires in the pay to play scene.  Because face it, if you can’t afford something, you move on and focus on what you believe your money should be spent on.

To the list I’ve added Mr I’ve Bought You Something From Your Wish-list.  You’ll see why.  But this is an introduction to a line up of timewasters in their many and varied guises. Some are more obvious than others and some are more devious. Whatever their Modus Operandi the result is the same: wasted time, wasted effort and varying degrees of damage to a PD’s confidence, motivation and livelihood (and will to live).

Mr Chat doesn’t want to make a booking. He has no intention of ever making a booking but he’ll call to have a chat about the session that you will do with him. He will also assure you that he is completely genuine. He will carefully guide the conversation to what he could expect and how you will discipline him. Watch out for heavy breathing and sudden hang ups as he disappears in a puff of spunk (copyrighted to Ms Slide).

Mr No Show makes a booking so that he can discuss with you all of his concerns and worries. He needs you to allay his fears and he likes to talk about how enjoyable sessions are. When he makes the booking he is strangely available on any day, at any time you suggest with no hesitation or time to consult either his memory or his diary. Along with Mr Chat he is very, very genuine. He tells you this at least three times. You have a feeling he won’t confirm and sure enough, he doesn’t.

Mr Confirms will book and, as requested and expected, he will also confirm on the day of the session. He then conducts his usual business knowing that the Mistress will be preparing herself for him. He watches the clock with baited breath and tented trouser as the time draws ever nearer. Look at him, he’s Da Man. He has a Mistress all dressed up and waiting for him. False bookings are often made in his lunch break so he can spend some extra time in the loos.

Mr Cancel is a bit further up the evolutionary scale than Mr Chat, Mr No Show and Mr Confirms. Mr Cancel makes a considered booking in advance. He may then need to call to change the time of the day. With each call he chats a little more. He’s really looking forward to the session, are you? Unfortunately, something very, very important crops up at work and so he has to cancel. He’s terribly sorry. He calls again a few weeks later and re-books. Unfortunately though, he has to cancel again. After several months you realise he has done nothing but book and cancel, book and cancel.

Mr Promise usually contacts you through message boards. He’d love to come and see you but he’s a bit busy at the moment. He contacts you again every few weeks to update you on his busy schedule and the problems he is having with his bank. As soon as it is sorted he will make a booking. Ever so friendly and don’t forget, genuine, he updates you whether you are bothered or not on how much closer he is to making a booking. He never does make that booking.

Mr Excuse is Mr Cancels’ cousin. Mr Excuse makes a booking but has to cancel due to so many things going wrong. These things happen don’t they? The MOT on the car was more expensive than they thought so they need to cancel. They have been called in for extra, much needed overtime so they have to cancel. But it is okay because he has let you know in plenty of time so he knows he can rebook at any time…as long as he cancels…even if it is the same day.

Mr One Session has given all of this timewasting a great deal of thought. Mr One Session makes a booking and he does turn up. He will ‘let slip’ how often he likes to session and how much disposable income he has. He has proved he isn’t a timewaster but a very promising regular, so when he books again you accept it with no qualms. Unfortunately he has to cancel a couple of days before. He’s terribly sorry. No problem, these things happen, thanks for letting me know. He soon calls again to rebook. Unfortunately he has to cancel again. Thanks for letting me know. A couple of weeks later he rebooks. The excuses are sounding less and less genuine but he sounds so sincere and he did come before you continue to give him the benefit of the doubt. He rebooks. He cancels. You then find out he is playing the same game with a number of PDs in the same area. He’s well known, has several numbers and a few names. Fortunately for you he can’t remember which name he uses with which PD.

Mr Disappears books, confirms, and calls, as arranged, a few minutes before the session starts for final directions. He sounds nervous. He calls to say he has managed to get lost between point A and point B a mere 800 metres distance. You give directions again. No sign. You call. His phone is turned off. You wait, in vain, knowing that the sub eating monster has struck yet again.

Mr Freebie Hunter, otherwise known as Mr Friend may or may not actually book and turn up for a session. He’d rather not though as he is special and different to other subs. If he does he’ll only do it the once to prove he is genuine. Mr Freebie Hunter wants to be friends. He’ll offer to escort you to clubs and parties. He’ll even offer to do chores for you. All for free of course. Because he is special.

Mr Novelty is so off the wall that you can’t help but give him the time of day. He likes what? He is into what? Really? How does that work then? He becomes such a regular and amusing timewaster that you give him a nickname, and should you re-list on Serious Mistresses and he doesn’t call you actually become quite worried about him.

Mr Couple is a rare breed of timewaster. You can’t call yourself a twue PD until you have had a query from a man asking if you see couples. He’d have you talking all about how the session would work if you don’t refuse to discuss the possibilities any further until his wife calls you herself. She never does.

Mr Wonga is an odd one. He has stacks of cash and is usually accompanied by a (fake or genuine?) plummy accent. He has specially selected YOU but would you possibly be interested in his particular kink (even though you don’t list it, or specifically say you aren’t interested). Of course he will pay handsomely, at least three times your usual rate. He draws you in with his cash waving, extreme politeness and genial bonhomie. You don’t have the specific kit or clothing? No worries, Mr Wonga will purchase them for you. Despite his educated politeness he cannot take a firm ‘No’ as an acceptable answer. He regales you further with tales of shopping trips with his previous, but now retired (and unknown) Mistress. Eventually you manage to politely disengage and he reluctantly ends the conversation with a heavy sigh. Exactly 30 minutes later Mr Wonga calls back with an increased offer and further anecdotes about how often he would purchase special items for his last Mistress. The only way to get rid of Mr Wonga is to give in and agree to see him, and sure enough, you never hear from him again.

Mr Special is far too busy, and far too important to waste his valuable time carefully reading your website. Oh no, he’d far rather grab your telephone number and call you to waste your time by asking questions that are already answered on your site, things like your location, your fee, your interests… Mr Special deserves answers! Or he’ll ask for an appointment on the day you don’t work. He also doesn’t see why he should follow the same procedures as everyone else. What do you mean you don’t do same day appointments!? He is special! Fill out a questionnaire!!? But he is GENUINE.

Mr Macdonalds thinks all PDs are the same. The only thing that is different is our location. He usually asks for ‘the Mistress’ and if pressed has absolutely no idea which Mistress he is calling. His scribbled list of telephone numbers don’t help him out so he stutters and coughs as he desperately tries to remember a name, any name. Mr Macdonalds is rather bewildered and confused that you don’t immediately and gratefully agree to see him.

Mr Calls Back Because He Thinks He’s Remembered “Is it Lisa?”

Mr Disaster is plagued with near death experiences on motorways and a never-ending steam of hospital bound relatives. Even his cat is accident prone. You dare not, and wouldn’t, say anything other than ‘I’m terribly sorry, I understand, please don’t worry about it’. It means as well that you will probably accept another booking, after all, he can’t possibly have that many grandmothers or car crashes can he? Unfortunately…he does.

Mr Confused. “How much?”

Mr Wrong End of the Stick. “Do you do sex?”

Mr Insomniac calls between the hours of 1am and 3am depending on what time his local club closes their doors. Inebriated and horny he calls hoping like hell that you don’t actually pick up. If you do happen to pick up he either asks you if you are available (what, now!?) or he quickly hangs up. If you don’t answer, he calls again, and again until he falls asleep in his pizza.

Mr Quiet. “……..” Is he even breathing? You hang up so he doesn’t faint.

Mr Hang Up Repeatedly hangs up Quelle surprise, I answered my phone.

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Mr Newbie…..not!  Tries very hard to sound nervous to the point of being painful to listen to. Keeps repeating that it will be his first time and is very nervous. Asks ( very nervously) what might be in store for his ” first session” and then proceeds to trip himself up by knowing some of the jargon used for various activities ( despite forever claiming before that he knows nothing) He will pick up on something you are saying/have said and will ask you to explain in more detail, and more detail…..and more detail ( because after all he is new to this) You explain that because its his first time, he needs to be sure that a session with you is really what he wants to do and that he should go away and think about it, and then give you a ring when he has……….only he never does because he has got what he wanted, a nice cosy/sexy chat.

Mr I’ve Bought You Something From Your Wish-list notifies you that he’s ordered an item from your wish-list, usually a substantially priced item that needs to be delivered and is scheduled to arrive in x number or days time.   He’ll drop hint about wanting a web cam or phone session, or may be insistent about having one immediately.  As he figures it ordering a gift item is as good as the item being in your hand.  Except the item never arrives – seeing as he would have cancelled it within 24 hours.  A case of buyer’s remorse, a genuine mistake with his credit card, or the mistress has naively given him some time on the phone or web cam so he cancels the purchase that had got him into her good books?

Mr I’m a Qualified Reikki/Masseur/Reflexologist who pretends to be a client desperate to book, then when the thorny topic of money arises, mentions that he’s qualified in Reikki, massage, reflexology or another alternative therapy.  When you don’t take the hint, he directly states that he can’t afford to pay but would happily do a trade of skills because I’ll enjoy it so much.  Newsflash, I can afford several sessions of Reikki, massage or reflexology for cash, without much effort, and select someone that’s qualified and insured to provide the service.

Mr Web Designer Despite seeing that I have a web site, asks if I’m looking for a web designer or any kind of internet work.  I had one the other day who wrote saying he was willing to trade his “skills” for my “time”.  This made me see red!  I haven’t picked up what I do as a hypnotist by teaching myself.  Countless hours in the class-room, lots of money spent on qualifications and he thinks all I have to offer a sub is my time.  My unskilled time.  Versus his html skills probably self-taught or picked up in Adult Education evening classes.  Even I know as much html, php and C programming as many of these blaggers. For the record, I will never allow any subject near my web sites.  It;s a little too close to home.

I found it amusing that the original author, Lady Anna, put into words random opinions that had been forming in my mind over the years.  And I’m sure other ladies had Oh My Gosh moments as they read through.

There is a list of Time-wasting mistresses.   Although I suspect that apart from the hard chore unprofessional ones, the others have just come up with excuses when they felt a particular sub was going to be more trouble than the tribute he would be would be worth.

I should compile a list of Treasured Clients.  Each one an individual in their needs, but having the same thing in common: respect for someone that has learnt enough about a particular skill or art to make their dreams come true.

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And now for some erotic wrestling with a hypnotic twist. I’m not new to combining erotic hypnosis with some playful erotic wrestling. This to me is some seriously good femdom (or should that be femdomme) hypnosis! This Youtube clip is from Japan, a country I shall be visiting later this month and be available for sessions, and this lady hypnotist playfully shows her wrestling partner his place with some really seductively erotic inductions. And her moves are so erotic and so smooth. She soon replaces his almost smug grin with a sleepy stare – for those rare moments when he does struggle to keep his eyes open. I can’t wait to try this out. Note to self: I must get some wrestling mats.

I mean, it’s a win win situation for the female hypnotist, isn’t it? Whether I start to establish My Supremacy over you at the induction stage – imagine waking up with your head held in a tight vice like grip between my strong thighs – or with post hypnotic triggers – perhaps my body is so slippery that, try as you may, you Struggle to maintain any kind of grip, feeling all the strength in your arms being drained as you Struggle but feel my words playing over and over again in your mind “you must submit, you must submit“. And even as you Submit, and slide back down towards your place at my feet, my voice will go with you as you sink deeper.

It will be a gentle defeat, but one for which you will be most grateful and emerge feeling remarkably refreshed.

Cleopatra will be live in Tokyo, Japan, offering in person Erotic Hypnosis Sessions from October 26 till November 4.  Book your personal session early to avoid disappointment. Details here: http://www.queencleopatra.co.uk/hypnosex/coming-to-tokyo-japan-erotic-hypnosis-with-a-female-hypnotist.htm

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Cleopatra is a female hypnotist specialising in Erotic Hypnosis, Mind Control, and Brain Washing in London, UK where she offers live, in person sessions of real, one to one hypnosis, a unique experience for those that wish to experience complete loss of control.

She also performs group hypnosis and stage hypnosis shows, as well as sessions via web cam, and phone. And if you can handle having your mind in a dreamy spin for days on end, invite Cleopatra along as your hypnotic travel companion on your next holiday break. Cleopatra regularly visits major US cities, Australia and Europe.

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When I first started offering erotic hypnosis, I avoided the obvious, the colour of my skin, and avoided labelling myself as a black hypnotist or ebony hypnotist.  My skill as a hypnotist was what I wanted, and still want, subjects to be lulled by.  That I’m an attractive black female is hardly here, nor there, although if you’re looking for a hypnotist who is reasonably gentle on the eye, I’d like to think I fit the bill.

But sometimes race and back-ground matters.   And the impending launch of a web site devoted solely to the adoration of black dommes raised eye-brows.   It’s the Black Femdom Society .

The botton line is, many, many submissives (white, Asian, oriental, whatever) seek out domination by a black mistress.  They are fascinated by us.  They expect us to be naturally cruel, and maybe there’s a bit of dipping one’s head in the lion’s den – submit oneself to a person who may have good cause to be out for revenge.   It’s almost like a cult following.  Creating such a society may sound controversial at face value, but it is merely a response to a need that has no malice or discrimination, no intention to hurt or exclude.  It’s aim is to be embraced by those that seek and tremble at the knees of so many of the object of their desires gathered in one place.  Almost in the same way a hypnofetish is overwhelmed when surrounded by several hypnodommes.

As a result, within the Black Femdom Society, there will be a mix of people of all races by virtue of the fact that the subs will come from all backgrounds; they’ll think they’ve died and gone to black mistress heaven.  If it were purely a black affair, there wouldn’t be enough traffic to the site to even justify the hosting fees.  I can count on one hand the number of black subs I’ve had serve me and I’ve never had a live hypnosis session with black subject either.  Maybe submitting to someone that reminds them of their mother or sisters and the deep cultural ramifications is too close to home for them and thus has no appeal.  Or they really don’t want to show their vulnerability to one of “their own”.  Or statistically, there just aren’t that many of them around.

It would come as a shock to many that just as there is an under-ground movement of devotees to the erotic hypnosis fetish, there is an underground group of predominantly black subs, male and female, who’s kink is to submit themselves to slave role-play.  By slave role play, I mean re-enacting the kind of taboo scenarios abolished with the slave trade.  Can you imagine the kind of gauntlet they would have to run, even amongst their fellow black kinksters, over this?

There was a recent thread on Fetlife where a black dom was up in arms about the number of black female submissives specifying in their profiles that they were only interested in serving white masters.  The expertise and commitment to the life-style of white doms was the most commonly cited reason why black female submissives prefer to submit to a white master.  There is almost certainly as healthy a demand for a White Masters Society as there is one for a Black FemDomme Society, judging by the number of black female subs that will not session with a fellow black.

And many a white submissive female is attracted to a skilled and genuine black master (if i were submissive, I’d definitely be curious about serving a black master).  Please note that I distinguish between the actual life style black masters and the oafish clowns that just see an opportunity for pussy on tap and to pleasure their base desire to abuse a woman sexually but under the misappropiated legitimacy of domination.  These will have no commitment to learning how to dominate her mind as well as her body and can quite easily maim or kill an all too trusting and naive sub my misusing some of the BDSM equipment that is out there.  Domination of a woman solely for physical gratification already has another name: marriage.  Why repeat this when out to play?  Or maybe, also for these black ladies, submitting to a fellow black man is too close to home, or a reminder of an abusive and non-erotic real life setting they had to witness when younger.

I can easily see a business case not just for a Black Femdomme Society, but a White Master Society as well as a Black Master’s Society without the usual knee jerk reaction that should be reserved for the genuinely repulsive gestures of racial intimidation and discrimination.  A White Domme Society would not be controversial if it were set up in demand to submissives of colour for a white master.  I think its when a group is set up by its own type for its own type (like the Klu Klux Khan) that allegations of racial prejudice and exclusion become valid.

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