When I first started offering erotic hypnosis, I avoided the obvious, the colour of my skin, and avoided labelling myself as a black hypnotist or ebony hypnotist. My skill as a hypnotist was what I wanted, and still want, subjects to be lulled by. That I’m an attractive black female is hardly here, nor there, although if you’re looking for a hypnotist who is reasonably gentle on the eye, I’d like to think I fit the bill.
But sometimes race and back-ground matters. And the impending launch of a web site devoted solely to the adoration of black dommes raised eye-brows. It’s the Black Femdom Society .
The botton line is, many, many submissives (white, Asian, oriental, whatever) seek out domination by a black mistress. They are fascinated by us. They expect us to be naturally cruel, and maybe there’s a bit of dipping one’s head in the lion’s den – submit oneself to a person who may have good cause to be out for revenge. It’s almost like a cult following. Creating such a society may sound controversial at face value, but it is merely a response to a need that has no malice or discrimination, no intention to hurt or exclude. It’s aim is to be embraced by those that seek and tremble at the knees of so many of the object of their desires gathered in one place. Almost in the same way a hypnofetish is overwhelmed when surrounded by several hypnodommes.
As a result, within the Black Femdom Society, there will be a mix of people of all races by virtue of the fact that the subs will come from all backgrounds; they’ll think they’ve died and gone to black mistress heaven. If it were purely a black affair, there wouldn’t be enough traffic to the site to even justify the hosting fees. I can count on one hand the number of black subs I’ve had serve me and I’ve never had a live hypnosis session with black subject either. Maybe submitting to someone that reminds them of their mother or sisters and the deep cultural ramifications is too close to home for them and thus has no appeal. Or they really don’t want to show their vulnerability to one of “their own”. Or statistically, there just aren’t that many of them around.
It would come as a shock to many that just as there is an under-ground movement of devotees to the erotic hypnosis fetish, there is an underground group of predominantly black subs, male and female, who’s kink is to submit themselves to slave role-play. By slave role play, I mean re-enacting the kind of taboo scenarios abolished with the slave trade. Can you imagine the kind of gauntlet they would have to run, even amongst their fellow black kinksters, over this?
There was a recent thread on Fetlife where a black dom was up in arms about the number of black female submissives specifying in their profiles that they were only interested in serving white masters. The expertise and commitment to the life-style of white doms was the most commonly cited reason why black female submissives prefer to submit to a white master. There is almost certainly as healthy a demand for a White Masters Society as there is one for a Black FemDomme Society, judging by the number of black female subs that will not session with a fellow black.
And many a white submissive female is attracted to a skilled and genuine black master (if i were submissive, I’d definitely be curious about serving a black master). Please note that I distinguish between the actual life style black masters and the oafish clowns that just see an opportunity for pussy on tap and to pleasure their base desire to abuse a woman sexually but under the misappropiated legitimacy of domination. These will have no commitment to learning how to dominate her mind as well as her body and can quite easily maim or kill an all too trusting and naive sub my misusing some of the BDSM equipment that is out there. Domination of a woman solely for physical gratification already has another name: marriage. Why repeat this when out to play? Or maybe, also for these black ladies, submitting to a fellow black man is too close to home, or a reminder of an abusive and non-erotic real life setting they had to witness when younger.
I can easily see a business case not just for a Black Femdomme Society, but a White Master Society as well as a Black Master’s Society without the usual knee jerk reaction that should be reserved for the genuinely repulsive gestures of racial intimidation and discrimination. A White Domme Society would not be controversial if it were set up in demand to submissives of colour for a white master. I think its when a group is set up by its own type for its own type (like the Klu Klux Khan) that allegations of racial prejudice and exclusion become valid.
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